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Barbara D. Porter
  • In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions be made to:
  • Marathon For a Better Life
    PO Box 268
    Warnerville, NY 12187
  • In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions be made to:
  • Blenheim United Methodist Church
    PO Box 137
    N. Blenheim, NY 12131

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Hi mom been thinking of you lastnight and today cried myself to sleep lastnight i have all these holiday decorations up and they dont seem to mean anything to me i miss you i know it sounds selfish but there are worse people in the world god could have taken and let us have you just a little more i know that sounds awful but i wanna be a little selfish for once i miss you my heart just isnt

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Posted by: howard porter - greenville, TX - son   Dec 02, 2012

Hey Sis just checking in. I miss you and mom so much I wish you both was here. But I know God had something for both of you to do. Well have to go I'm starting to cry. Tell mom I love her and I love you also.


Posted by: Millie - Gloversville, NY - Sister   Nov 30, 2012

Hi mom was thinking of you today amber had her baby named her emma isnt that a pretty name jen posted a pic on facebook with her amber and emma wish you could have been there it would have been 4 generations of women in our family but it just wasnt ment to be i miss you and think of you every day i am having shoulder surgery on the 13th of december while i am under you can come

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Posted by: howard porter - greenville, TX - son   Nov 28, 2012

Hi mom hope all is well with you sorry i havent written in a few days very busy at work spent my first holiday without you it was sad i am glad that i had to work i would have cried all day well i broke my left shoulder and gotta have it repaired so another surgery and the guy looked at the other arm and says that he can fix it too so maybe i can have em both working right well am gonna go for now wish you were here we all miss you love ya bugger


Posted by: howard porter - greenville, TX - son   Nov 24, 2012

happy thanksgiving pink we love and miss you


Posted by: florence wescott - lumberport, WV - sister   Nov 22, 2012

hi mom we did the outside of the house lastnight hope you can see them i was thinking of you the whole time how you used to like the holidays i miss you and thinking of you all the time i love and miss you if you didnt see them lastnight look tonight we will be the large glow close to dallas :) love ya and misss you bugger


Posted by: howard porter - greenville, TX - son   Nov 17, 2012

hi mom sorry i havent written in a bit but was really busy with work and decorating for christmas seems different now that you are gone. wish i could have given you a lung so you could live longer i miss you greatly every day if it werent for mark i would definatly be in the nut house i have had a little breakdown and was gonna check myself in after overdosing on meds it just seems not the same

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Posted by: howard porter - greenville tx, TX - son   Nov 14, 2012

hi mom thinking of you today all day there is a storm heading your way to ny been trying to call jen i think her phone is out no answer i know how you hated the snow i wish you would have come to texas and live with me i asked a hundred times but you were happy there so i am glad you stayed there although i missed you so much hope that you are doing well say hi to gram for me i miss you and love you very much bugger


Posted by: howard porter - greenville, TX - son   Oct 29, 2012

hi mom thinking of you alot today been crying its been three months an the pain still hurts i dont know how people deal with these losses its gonna take me a long time i know it sometimes i even let myself laugh at something and feel bad that i am laughing and you arent i play that tape and just cry i am sooo sorry that i couldnt stay i know you wanted me to am sorry that i

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Posted by: howard porter - greenville, TX - son   Oct 27, 2012

hi mom was thinking of you all day today for some reason its raining and in the 80's wish you had a chance to come and see our house and our lives here you would have known why i am here its beautiful and the people are nice and care about oneanother i know you would have loved it i wish that god had given you another ten years to do that but he needed you earlier so there you

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Posted by: howard porter - greenville, TX - son   Oct 22, 2012